Tuesday, January 17, 2012

THE STRESS AND THE ADOLESCENT PERIOD

HOW STRESS  AFFECT YOUNG CHILDREN AND ADOLESCENTS
WILL BAD MOODS  AFFECT THE GENERAL WELL BEING OF
YOUNG CHILDREN AND ADOLESCENTS 

nowadays young children also got affected with stress and tension.
parents in general won't listen to their younger one's personal problems.
children in my clinic, invariably complain about their parental behaviour
straight in front of their parents.
you will understand this problems correctly if you watch this movie


dr.habibullah gives some useful parental tips.
watch your children carefully
listen to their problems attentively
guide them properly
spend some good time with your children.
you will understand the common complaints of your children if you listen to this dialogue.
dr.habibullah has wriitten the dialogue for this animation characters.

WHAT IS ADOLESCENT PERIOD
WHY TEENAGERS BEHAVE ABNORMALLY DURING THIS PERIOD
IS IT TRUE THAT, THIS PERIOD IS THE MOST STRESSFUL PERIOD IN LIFE.
your question is right. adolescent period is considered as the most
stressful period in every child's life. more care and attention is necessary during this period.
every mother should listen carefully to this dialogue so that it is
easy to understand the problem very well.



dr.habibullah discusses about the adolescent period and the common problems
the teenager faces in their day-to-day life.

CHILDHOOD DEPRESSION AND TIREDNESS

IS IT TRUE THAT CHILDREN TOO ARE
AFFECTED WITH DEPRESSION
JUST LIKE ADULTS


true. depression has become a common epidemic of
new age or modern day technology age
affectiong younger children and teenagers
dr.habibullah
discusses beautifullay about the common symptoms of depression
in young children and adolescents



just listen carefully to the dialogue written by
DR.V.F.HABIBULLAH
senior consultant paediatrician and adolescent psychologist - chennai
an interesting movie to understand
childhood depression

WHAT MAKES THE CHILDREN FEEL RESTLESS AND TIRED
nowadays almost all mothers ask me this question when they bring their chidren
for general check up. nuclear family setup in modern cities compel the
younger ones to live alone or in isolation for longer time.
mother's working shedules and long absense of  mothers in the houses
make these children jittery, nervous and fatigued.



dr.habibullah advices the mothers to watch
the children's activities both inside and otside
the sleeping patterns
the eating habits  and
the behaviour problems in general.
you will understand the problems correctly
if you listen to the movie carefully.
this dialogue is written by dr.habibullah





PARENTAL NEGLECT AND TV WATCHING HABITS IN CHILDREN


just listen to the dialogue between the father and his son
before proceeding to watch the other movies
this discussion will give an idea about what the present day teenager thinks about their parents.
please try to understand your children fully well before punishing them.

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IS IT TRUE THAT YOUR CHILD SPENDS LOTS OF TIME
IN FRONT OF THE TV
now listen to the channel
dr.habibullah discusses about children's
lack of concentration in studies and
attention deficit disorders


dr.habibullah
in this animation movie discusses
child TV watching habits
parental responsibilities
mother's involvement and
parental guidance

animation movie dialogue is written by dr.habibullah
listen carefully

WHY MOST CHILDREN SHOW SHYNESS
HOW TO OVERCOME THIS
this is the most common question
every mother asks me when they bring their children for treatment
just listen to this dialogue


discussion on how to overcome
shyness in children
train the child for self-confidence
if the father shows shyness, will it affect the children
interesting questions are answered

this dialogue for this animation characters are written by
DR.HABIBULLAH


Friday, January 13, 2012

ATTENTION DEFICIT IN CHILDREN

FEAR  PHOBIAS AND LACK OF CONCENTRATION IN CHILDREN


DR.HABIBULLAH
senior consultant paediatrician and
adolescent psychologist
discusses common childhood emotional problems like
lack of concentration, fear, phobias
attention deficit and abnormal disorders in children and adolescents



in this animation film
the characters speak the dialogue written by
DR.HABIBULLAH
 mothers can easily understand
the common childhood problems they face in their day-to-day life.
listen carefully

Thursday, January 12, 2012

TEEN LOVE AND THE PARENTAL HATRED

In all societies heroes are generally admired, recognised, respected and sometimes worshipped. Political world and the entertainment world  creates real heroes and these heroes give a lot of inspiration to these youngsters. Love at first sight is an impulse, an emotional instinct. A play of body chemistry - an  alteration in their physiology plays a vital role in stimulating the sexual impulse in these youngsters.

Attracting the opposite sex or in teenage love affairs, appearance, beauty and body image and shapes are major ingredients. In sexual matters things are different and at times opposite. There is a lot of difference between a love failure and sexual failure. Teenage love is based on body attraction, a perfect body image that should be appreciated and adored by both friends and lovers. Teenage love is not born out of compassion, it is hundred percent sexual passion. In this young digital world boys are measured by their toys - the mobiles, the ipod, the ipad, the two wheeler and the car that  they possess.

Bigger tools and modern toys generate more attraction. The one who spends time more in the shopping malls and restaurants  attract more lovers, friends and admirers. Teenage love affairs also work like commerce.

The number of lovers  the teenager attracts within a short span of time is more important than putting all attention to attract one single individual. The modern rule says - ATTRACT MANY AND LOVE NONE
In this new age it is easy to convert a lover into an admirer and an admirer into a lover. Teenage love affair does not last longer. If the teenager is a boy, it is too difficult for him to continue the affair because he cannot marry his lover at this tender age. Without good financial independence it is very difficult for him to maintain a family.

Modern parents love to see the teenage love - affairs in cinemas, not in real life. Dating a boy or girl is nothing to do with love making. The word 'dating'  misrepresents everything. Media and internet promotes the heinous crime subtly and exploit the innocent adolescents without unerstanding the bad consequences. Because of this an innocent love-affair is projected as a love making affair, that ultimately spoils the tender lives of the innocent teenagers. Without infusing good family values these children get spoiled and their life become miserable sooner. With good parental care and personal guidance these children and teenagers can be saved from the turmoil of the mental and the emotional agonies that result from the  innocent love  affair.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

ADOLESCENCE AND THE ATTRACTION

the impulse to attract the opposite gender


Teenage is the period when children are equipped with the tools of young adults. The true functioning of the new equipment is unknown to them.No one teaches them how to handle it in a proper way. The changes that happen in the anatomy of their bodies create lot of turmoil in their blood chemistry which alters the psychology of their thinking style.The sudden disappearance of the small tools and the changes that happen around their sexual apparatus make them a little bit crazy and funny.Comparing their anatomical parts with their peers and at times exposing it to the opposite sex gives them a sort of sensual pleasure. It is natural for the teenagers to get the appreciation or admiration from their friends especially from the opposite gender. School talent shows and sport events pave the way and the competition is so hectic that very few are recognised and the rest are allowed to show their innate talent elsewhere. To get the attention and attraction of the of the opposite gender they need to show certain talents in certain fields. If it is not possible they may loose their charisma and get neglected by their peers and loved ones. The sadness starts the minute they start loving the opposite partner. The primal love affair begins and ends in love - hate relationship.

STRESS AND BAD FEELINGS

emotional stress - too much to bear at this young age


A child with a load of emotional stress cannot listen properly. It is too difficult for them to respond to an easy request or command either from their parents or teachers. They can't think properly with clear headedness. When their emotions are intense their thoghts get confused or distorted. Even a small issue from the house or the school becomes a  great threat, these children feel unhappy because that generate fear and worry in their mind. Stress generally disables their stability. They may find it difficult to understand the feelings of others. They at times mis-read the emotions of their own parents. when emotions are unbearable they may burst into tears or fall into temper - tantrums or psychological convulsions. These children neither impress nor attract  teachers or their own friends. These bad feelings have a damaging effect on their mental performance in school. Head aches, body pain and sleep disorders are the result of these stress and bad emotions.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

EMOTIONS AND SUCCESS

A student's success in life depends to a great extent on the emotional traits of their parents. Parental neglect is more dangerous than physical abuse. Neglected children are generally anxious, fearful, inattentive, careless, aggressive and withdrawn.


  1. bad emotions weaken the young mind
  2. their thinking and learning skills are altered.
  3. the ability to concentrate get diminished
  4. continuous strain and stress impair the learning center
  5. thinking mind is stopped and gets confused
Home life is the first school for emotional learning. Students of depressed mothers generally reflect the bad emotions of their mothers on their faces. They naturally learn to display the basic emotions like sadness, unhappiness, anger and fear with intensity and colour.