Monday, May 2, 2011

MIND AN INVISIBLE SCREEN

Question


Is it true that the young mind is emotional - if it is so, how the mind functions in young children and adolescents.


Answer


you can imagine the mind like a silver screen, on which thoughts are projected like images. When bad thoughts are projected on it the young mind is disturbed.Children and young adults do not know how to differenciate a good thought from the bad thought because the young mind is immature. When the child is confused the thinking get confused. Emotional traumas and tantrums lead the younger children towards violence. These children in general behave abnormally.


Children learn all their primary emotions directly from their mothers, because their minds are in a developing stage and it is so weak and fragile. When a mother is depressed the child feels the emotion of depression and experience the sad feelings of the mother. They reflect the sad feelings on their faces more vividly. They display sadness, unhappiness, anger and fear with intensity and colour. Bad emotions like this always cripple the young mind and make them sick and weak. These children are always shy and withdrawn, socially inadequate and nervous. These children are more prone for alcohol addiction and drug habits.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

LIKE FATHER - LIKE SON

aggressive and violent parents tend to create
aggressive and violent children.
when parents teach good values but themselves
behave differently, chidren copy the parent's
behaviour than their teachings.
children at times adopt the role model of a bad
parent than the good one.
when the parents are playful and assertive
with their kids - the children in turn tend to be
more active, assertive, playful and popular
among other children.
when parents identify the bad moods and
emotions in their children and correct them in
time are good at recognising other children's
moods and emotions and develop social skills
very easily.
seductive mothers invariably influence the
behaviour of their tender children, especially
their daughters.

Monday, August 30, 2010

TEENAGE BAD EMOTIONS AND MOODS

FEAR - sabotages academic performance
WORRY - interferes with clear thinking
ANGER - ends in violence
ANXIETY - undermines intellect
SADNESS -disrupts mental clarity
AGONY - alters memory
DOUBT - destroys trust

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

TEENAGE AND DEPRESSION


Teenage is an age of anxiety, modern day epidemic in children and teens result in
not just unhappiness or sadness but rest -
lessness, listlessness, weakness, helpless -
ness and hopelessness.
Depressed teenagers generally not intere
sted in talking about their unhappiness or
sadness either with their parents or with
thheir teachers and friends. They are more irritable, impatient and angry towards their
parents and care - takers. They can't tolerate life's small failures and even a bad grade in
school performance.
Fear, worry, anger and anxiety alters the physiology of the body and the psychology of the
mind.